Sex And Money In Relationship

SEX AND MONEY IN RELATIONSHIP
A lady wrote and I quote "Throughout my lifetime, I have been called a “tease”, “gold digger”, “the B word” whenever a man can’t get his way and grope me wherever he wants.

I wonder if there was ever a man in the World who jumped into a relationship just because the woman had a degree or was smart? Would we call him a “gold digger” since he prefers his lady to have a degree?
I doubt it.
What about the guy who only wants a woman for sex? Isn’t that the stereotype, that sex means almost everything to a man, money often following right behind it on the “Manhood List of Things to Do in My Lifetime”.
Have lots of sex. Check.
Make lots of money. Check.
Is that guy a hoe because he constantly hunts for new women to sleep with or because he only got with a cute woman because she has a “fat a*s”?
What does the world call men who sleep around with multiple partners, potentially catching diseases and having babies that they either know about and don’t care to know them.
Or, they don’t know how many children they have out there and don’t care to know.

Before I hit the nail on the head, Sex by definition, means contact between individuals involving penetration, especially the insertion of a man's erect penis into a woman's vagina, typically culminating in orgasm and the ejaculation of semen.
Money on the other hand, Money something generally accepted as a medium of exchange, a measure of value, or a means of payment.
Men love sex and women loves money.
Sex and money seem to be common themes nowadays, as sex scandals abound, and the money that comes along with it is obscene! As our culture becomes more engrossed in the pairing of these two subjects, they are also the two topics causing the most problems in relationships
Sex is tied into money and that’s all wrapped up in power. The power struggle between men and women, in our relationships is a familiar territory.
I ran into a letter a letter someone wrote to, Bukky Sanni, in the letter,  she said,

"I have two guys in my life. One is good in bed and I am 3 years older than him.
The other is older than me with two years but he’s bad in bed.
Now both of them want me to marry them. My concern now is that the one that’s bad in bed has been financially supporting me while the latter hasn't, although he says that’s because I never ask him for assistance when I need it.
She further said, I really like the one that is bad in bed but love the other. She asked, Please what do I do? I feel pity for the other one that is bad in bed.
Here was Sanni's respond.
"Never get into a relationship with someone because you pity them, let alone a marriage.
If the basis of what you feel for them is compassion or pity, don’t ever do it.
I also will advise you to stop collecting money from him till this phase of indecision passes.
Do not let money or the explosiveness of sex be the only parameters of judging both men though.
Who treats you better, respects you more, makes you feel secure and safe? Who brings you peace, comfort, make you laugh, pushes you to be better, supports you [not just with money]
I don’t think anyone can help you decide who to spend the rest of your life with but I guess the tips above can slightly nudge you in the right direction to go.
The bottom line is that if you "remove sex from relationship and you'll discover that over 90% of ladies has nothing to offer in relationships.
Remove money from a relationship and you'll discover that over 90% of ladies won't see a reason to be in that relationship " -Trevor Noah.
Undoubtedly, a relationship which will thrive must possess both of these things and a lot of other relationship needs.
When money and sex are apart from the lot, and the importance and impact each one has on relationships is weighed against the other, then there can be no doubt that sex is less important and money is of more importance.