IF YOU MUST EMERGE!
True to the old adage, "Behind every successful man is a good woman." The expression also holds true for successful women.
In fact, people with supportive spouses are "more likely to give themselves the chance to succeed,"
"We found support for the idea that the choices people make at these specific decision points, such as pursuing a work opportunity...matter a lot for their long-term well-being," Brooke Feeney, lead author of the study and professor of psychology at Carnegie Mellon, says in a statement.
Many successful people have discussed the importance of having their spouse by their side. Former president Barack Obama attributes his political success to his wife.
"Obviously I couldn't have done anything that I've done without Michelle," Obama tells Oprah Winfrey in 2011. "You were asking earlier what keeps me sane, what keeps me balanced, what allows me to deal with the pressure. It is this young lady right here... Not only has she been a great first lady, she is just my rock. I count on her in so many ways every single day."
Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg noted the vital role his wife Priscilla Chan plays in his life in a 2017 Harvard commencement speech. The tech guru says Chan inspired him to volunteer his time and take on social work.
Mrs Ibukun Awosika, the Chairman, First
Bank of Nigeria PLC., identify in her speech while advising the graduating students of Covenant University that the biggest decision you'll make is the choice of the woman or man you'll marry.
However stressing that, the choice of who to marry can make or break your life
with all the mission, vision and dreams if you marry the wrong person, everything can be derailed one way or the other.
In a nutshell, many facets of your success depends on who one choose as his or her life partner, that's IF YOU MUST EMERGE. The secret to every successful being on earth depends on who they chose as their life partner.
The person you marry is a key factor IF YOU MUST EMERGE...
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Focus on commitment, not motivation.
Just how committed are you to your goal? How important is it for you, and what are you willing to sacrifice in order to achieve it? If you find yourself fully committed, motivation will follow.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Seek knowledge, not results.
If you focus on the excitement of discovery, improving, exploring and experimenting, your motivation will always be fueled. If you focus only on results, your motivation will be like weather—it will die the minute you hit a storm. So the key is to focus on the journey, not the destination. Keep thinking about what you are learning along the way and what you can improve.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE,Get rid of stagnating thoughts.
Thoughts influence feelings and feelings determine how you view your work. You have a lot of thoughts in your head, and you always have a choice of which ones to focus on: the ones that will make you emotionally stuck (fears, doubts) or the ones that will move you forward (excitement, experimenting, trying new things, stepping out of your comfort zone).
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Use your imagination.
Next step after getting rid of negative thoughts is to use your imagination. When things go well, you are full of positive energy, and when you are experiencing difficulties, you need to be even more energetic. So rename your situation. If you keep repeating I hate my work, guess which feelings those words will evoke? It’s a matter of imagination! You can always find something to learn even from the worst boss in the world at the most boring job. I have a great exercise for you: Just for three days, think and say positive things only. See what happens.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Stop being nice to yourself.
Motivation means action and action brings results. Sometimes your actions fail to bring the results you want. So you prefer to be nice to yourself and not put yourself in a difficult situation.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Get rid of distractions.
Meaningless things and distractions will always be in your way, especially those easy, usual things you would rather do instead of focusing on new challenging and meaningful projects. Learn to focus on what is the most important.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE,Don’t rely on others.
You should never expect others to do it for you, not even your partner, friend or boss. They are all busy with their own needs. No one will make you happy or achieve your goals for you.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Plan.
Know your three steps forward. You do not need more. Fill out your weekly calendar, noting when you will do what and how.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Protect yourself from burnout.
It’s easy to burn out when you are very motivated. Observe yourself to recognize any signs of tiredness and take time to rest. Your body and mind rest when you schedule relaxation and fun time into your weekly calendar.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Don't be desperate, don't rush through life, take a pause in your life and recognize what you’re surrounded by.
We are constantly stuck in a cycle of rushing things, and we never stop to admire life and everything around us. We never stop to relax and take things slowly. We are constantly pressured and anxious about being left behind in a crowd when we should have gone at our own pace and EMERGE on our own terms.
You shouldn't rush because if you do, it will affect your decision making skills, You Will Miss Out On Opportunities, You Will Procrastinate.
Slow down. Take a deep breath admire yourself and what is around you. Don't add on more things on your plate. Don't compete with anybody. We all have different time zone.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, choose wisely. To Whom Much Is Given, Much Is Expected!
True to the old adage, "Behind every successful man is a good woman." The expression also holds true for successful women.
In fact, people with supportive spouses are "more likely to give themselves the chance to succeed,"
"We found support for the idea that the choices people make at these specific decision points, such as pursuing a work opportunity...matter a lot for their long-term well-being," Brooke Feeney, lead author of the study and professor of psychology at Carnegie Mellon, says in a statement.
Many successful people have discussed the importance of having their spouse by their side. Former president Barack Obama attributes his political success to his wife.
"Obviously I couldn't have done anything that I've done without Michelle," Obama tells Oprah Winfrey in 2011. "You were asking earlier what keeps me sane, what keeps me balanced, what allows me to deal with the pressure. It is this young lady right here... Not only has she been a great first lady, she is just my rock. I count on her in so many ways every single day."
Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg noted the vital role his wife Priscilla Chan plays in his life in a 2017 Harvard commencement speech. The tech guru says Chan inspired him to volunteer his time and take on social work.
Mrs Ibukun Awosika, the Chairman, First
Bank of Nigeria PLC., identify in her speech while advising the graduating students of Covenant University that the biggest decision you'll make is the choice of the woman or man you'll marry.
However stressing that, the choice of who to marry can make or break your life
with all the mission, vision and dreams if you marry the wrong person, everything can be derailed one way or the other.
In a nutshell, many facets of your success depends on who one choose as his or her life partner, that's IF YOU MUST EMERGE. The secret to every successful being on earth depends on who they chose as their life partner.
The person you marry is a key factor IF YOU MUST EMERGE...
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Focus on commitment, not motivation.
Just how committed are you to your goal? How important is it for you, and what are you willing to sacrifice in order to achieve it? If you find yourself fully committed, motivation will follow.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Seek knowledge, not results.
If you focus on the excitement of discovery, improving, exploring and experimenting, your motivation will always be fueled. If you focus only on results, your motivation will be like weather—it will die the minute you hit a storm. So the key is to focus on the journey, not the destination. Keep thinking about what you are learning along the way and what you can improve.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE,Get rid of stagnating thoughts.
Thoughts influence feelings and feelings determine how you view your work. You have a lot of thoughts in your head, and you always have a choice of which ones to focus on: the ones that will make you emotionally stuck (fears, doubts) or the ones that will move you forward (excitement, experimenting, trying new things, stepping out of your comfort zone).
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Use your imagination.
Next step after getting rid of negative thoughts is to use your imagination. When things go well, you are full of positive energy, and when you are experiencing difficulties, you need to be even more energetic. So rename your situation. If you keep repeating I hate my work, guess which feelings those words will evoke? It’s a matter of imagination! You can always find something to learn even from the worst boss in the world at the most boring job. I have a great exercise for you: Just for three days, think and say positive things only. See what happens.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Stop being nice to yourself.
Motivation means action and action brings results. Sometimes your actions fail to bring the results you want. So you prefer to be nice to yourself and not put yourself in a difficult situation.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Get rid of distractions.
Meaningless things and distractions will always be in your way, especially those easy, usual things you would rather do instead of focusing on new challenging and meaningful projects. Learn to focus on what is the most important.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE,Don’t rely on others.
You should never expect others to do it for you, not even your partner, friend or boss. They are all busy with their own needs. No one will make you happy or achieve your goals for you.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Plan.
Know your three steps forward. You do not need more. Fill out your weekly calendar, noting when you will do what and how.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Protect yourself from burnout.
It’s easy to burn out when you are very motivated. Observe yourself to recognize any signs of tiredness and take time to rest. Your body and mind rest when you schedule relaxation and fun time into your weekly calendar.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, Don't be desperate, don't rush through life, take a pause in your life and recognize what you’re surrounded by.
We are constantly stuck in a cycle of rushing things, and we never stop to admire life and everything around us. We never stop to relax and take things slowly. We are constantly pressured and anxious about being left behind in a crowd when we should have gone at our own pace and EMERGE on our own terms.
You shouldn't rush because if you do, it will affect your decision making skills, You Will Miss Out On Opportunities, You Will Procrastinate.
Slow down. Take a deep breath admire yourself and what is around you. Don't add on more things on your plate. Don't compete with anybody. We all have different time zone.
IF YOU MUST EMERGE, choose wisely. To Whom Much Is Given, Much Is Expected!
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